The couple, who are set to wed in a “not too fancy, very laid back and cool” wedding later this month, didn’t plan this overlapping of events, but Jane says that it was a happy coincidence: “[Alex] asked me to marry him and then I found out that we were going to have a baby. The baby wasn’t planned exactly, but our future was. It was going to be in there somewhere, we just didn’t know when.”

Jane also tells ET Canada about how excited her parents are about becoming grandparents: “Both my parents are so excited, they keep calling me and they’re like, ‘I can’t wait to have a little rugrat running around the house.’”

After the assault, she awoke to find helicopters circling her house and reporters swarming her street. “I felt like I went to sleep as Rihanna and woke up as Britney Spears,” she said.

Rihanna said she felt disappointed and taken advantage of, especially when she heard that the two officers under investigation for leaking her photo were women.

“I felt like people were making it into a fun topic on the Internet, and it’s my life,” she said.

“Domestic violence is a big secret,” Rihanna said. “The positive thing that has come out of my situation is that people can learn from that. I want to give as much insight as I can to young women, because I feel like I represent a voice that really isn’t heard. Now I can help speak for those women.”